Create a BeamMP server, and in the serverconfig.toml set the server to Private so no one else can join. Then you both should be able to direct connect to it.
Check out this guide on how to setup a BeamMP server
Create a BeamMP server, and in the serverconfig.toml set the server to Private so no one else can join. Then you both should be able to direct connect to it.
Check out this guide on how to setup a BeamMP server