Hi aperson,
First things first, I have moved this posting to “Support-Server Support” in the future please do not use the “Important” category for issues like this. As for the error code you are getting 10061 populates when the network times out on the launcher, this is usually due to an issue with your port forwarding settings. You can find some port forwarding information at Server | BeamMP to get you started. Hopefully this helps you get connected.